Now that you are living in your Aliveness, using your Superpower of Choice to create the best life you can imagine, what happens in a relationship with someone else?

A good question to ask is:  What is possible?

When I grew up, I watched people in relationships and didn’t like what I saw.  They seemed angry and stuck and unhappy.   I wanted to create something different.  It took me a long time to realize that I could choose something else.

Once I found my Aliveness and was truly living in choice and allowance, I didn’t want to lose the wonderful way it made me feel.  I didn’t want to lose my freedom by trading it for someone else’s version of how to live my life.

Many people don’t think relationship is a safe place.  They may have had a bad experience and have decided that it is safer to be alone.  I decided that I wanted to have a partner, an ally in life.  I wanted someone to help break the patterns of judgment and enjoy aliveness with me.

I wanted a playmate; a partner.

If you haven’t taken the time to cultivate self intimacy and you are entering into a relationship, take the time to do it. When you start a relationship, bring yourself along. All of your aliveness.  Be there for yourself, have your own back, trust your authority.

Know what your true north is and follow that compass relentlessly.

This post is infused by the energy of Seducing Aliveness, where two inspiring hosts reveal some controversial ideas.