Now that you are living in your Aliveness, using your Superpower of Choice to create the best life you can imagine, what happens in a relationship with someone else?

A good question to ask is:  What is possible?

When I grew up, I watched people in relationships and didn’t like what I saw.  They seemed angry and stuck and unhappy.   I wanted to create something different.  It took me a long time to realize that I could choose something else.

Once I found my Aliveness and was truly living in choice and allowance, I didn’t want to lose the wonderful way it made me feel.  I didn’t want to lose my freedom by trading it for someone else’s version of how to live my life.

Many people don’t think relationship is a safe place.  They may have had a bad experience and have decided that it is safer to be alone.  I decided that I wanted to have a partner, an ally in life.  I wanted someone to help break the patterns of judgment and enjoy aliveness with me.

I wanted a playmate; a partner.

If you haven’t taken the time to cultivate self intimacy and you are entering into a relationship, take the time to do it. When you start a relationship, bring yourself along. All of your aliveness.  Be there for yourself, have your own back, trust your authority.

Know what your true north is and follow that compass relentlessly.

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This post is infused by the energy of Seducing Aliveness, where two inspiring hosts reveal some controversial ideas.